Dating my ex boyfriend
G., I am a 17-year-old girl and I'm going into my senior year of high school. My friend broke up with her boyfriend of 6 months about a month ago. Now that I'm working with this boy-maybe we can call him Jim-I'm starting to like him. He asked me to go to a movie this past weekend but I said no because I was so nervous and confused about what to do. There are no clear social rules about this but we can try to tease things apart and discuss some unwritten social rules and etiquette. After a month has passed I believe that you can consider dating him. If she is a close friend then I would suggest that you talk to her and let her know that you are considering dating her ex-boyfriend.
Maybe other girls wouldn't think it's a dilemma but to me it is. She didn't talk about it much but she seemed upset when it happened. I would like to go on a date with Jim but I don't want to upset my friend and I don't want other girls to get mad at me. I asked my mother and she said that I should write to you. There is, of course, no simple answer to your question about when and whether or not it is socially acceptable to date a friend's ex. If your friend and this young man broke up within the past week or so then I would suggest that it is too soon to start dating her ex-boyfriend. Second, how close a friendship do you have with this young woman?
If your friend is not terribly upset about the break-up and has already moved on and re-grouped then the coast is clear for you to date the ex.
The answer to your question is that YES you may date the ex but do so with sensitivity and after an appropriate amount of time has passed. G For more articles like this see my website: CASTING ALERT!
In life, we meet and start to fall for people who we are familiar with and that includes the ex-boyfriends and ex-girlfriends of friends It is a shame that things aren't simpler but in life all things related to relationships and feelings are complicated. I hope that you are also able to maintain your friendship with your female friend. Los Angeles - TRUE LIFE: I'M DATING MY FRIEND'S EX Making a relationship work is tough enough, but what if your best friend had history--messy history--with your new boyfriend or girlfriend?
Could you handle the bad blood between the two most important people in your life?
Do you have to deal with your friend's unresolved feelings, or worse, your current boyfriend's?